My Birthday literally flew by! *
bye 26* I barely had time to prepare myself for it. (How does one do that anyways?) I was able to take a mini vacation to HOTSPRINGS, AR which gave me the mental peace and relaxation that I needed. So now I’m back with energy on 100%! Over this one year I can say that I have learned quite alot when it comes to LIFE. So I thought it would be good to say my 27 life lessons I’ve learned this new age. HERE IT GOES…..
1. Believe in Yourself
If you dont who will?
2. Learn from your mistakes
I learned that you have to make that first step in order to even know where you stand. It doesnt always go as planned but there is always a guaranteed lesson.
I find myself praying all the time. There’s so much to be thankful for, because over this pass year it was really tragic for me and I’m just grateful to be alive. There are some many things going on in the world today and for us to be safe and sound is major blessing.
Pray for love. Pray for blessings. Pray for peace.
4. Eat breakfast
I had to force myself to even wake up on time. I’m usually so caught up with what im doing and by the time i look up its already lunchtime. So it was constant battle of making sure I eat a big breakfast. It really is the most important meal of the day. Your body responds more effectively if so.
5. Do what you love
What are you interested in? What do you like to do? What makes you happy?
These 3 questions is what I had to ask myself this year because I found myself putting my hands in more than I could bear. I had to decide on what is important and stick with that. Many of us dont really know what we want to do in life and are stuck in the sucken place of the unknown.
*SNAP OUT OF IT!*
6. FALL in LOVE
Love is a beautiful thing I tell ya! LOL ( this one is pretty self explanatory) 🙂
This by far is something that takes skill and discipline. You have to put away a percentage of what you make and save it for a rainy day. You never know what you may need it for.
8. Dont believe the hype
EVERYTHING you see isn’t always what it’s turned out to be. People have ways of making things look so glorious and its not. Dont believe everything you hear and see. We have so many leeways and access to things like this. Instagram…Facebook are all contributors to the imaginary lives some people put out there. Be careful.
9. Learn to say YES! 🙂
Dont be scared. Make that step. Answer that call. Take that job.
Learn to say yes to something offered to you. Dont be the person that’s is always saying you will go next time. Go out and get some fresh air!
10. Learn to say NO! 🙁
Just like you can say YES you can say NO. Dont be afraid to say no if you really cant do it. If you know you have something far more important you can always oblige to the fact. Being honest about it will definitely get you far.
Who doesnt want to look good and feel good. Take a walk around the neighborhood. Clear your mind.
12. Friends come and GO
There are going to be times where you thought your friend(s) were the right ones for you. Sometimes you grow apart or maybe you just see their true colors. It happens.
Learn to create and make things yourself. It not only saves you money 100% of the time, but it’s good to see what creativity and little leg work can do. TRY IT!
14. Dont compare yourself to anyone else
You can spend your whole life wishing your own life was someone else’s, but in reality its just you. Strive for greatness and work on yourself. Everyone has a role model but try to make a better you.
15. TRAVEL! TRAVEL!! TRAVEL!!!
There is nothing like seeing what else is out there! Go on an adventure. Take a trip. Pack light and see what you can do! I love traveling because it shows me life in a different eye. Places around us are just as different. It never hurts to explore.
16. Set Goals
How will you know where you want to be if you dont set goals for yourself? Try making a vision board even. Never say you cant do something.
17. Get ORGANIZED.
Buy a planner. Set up your days. Plan your week ahead. Make lists and check them twice.
18. Find your style/Change your look
Just like there are seasons so should your look change. Change up your hair, or even your wardrobe. When you feel that you look good, who can tell you otherwise.
19. Exude CON-FI-DENCE
Let it run through your veins. Let no one bring you down!
20. Always wear a WATCH.
You want to be on time? lol I feel that when I have a watch I tend to be on time to most things, and it helps me manage myself in a timely manner.
21. Say THANK YOU.
A thank you goes a long way. People hold the door open for you. Maybe you dropped something and a random stranger quickly picked it up. Sometimes that simple gesture can be exactly what someone needed to hear.
22. Make NEW friends.
They are billions of people in this world of course. So why not speak to one? We may not realize that we may have passed up on a great friend. Communicate and network with new people, or even someone who shares the same interests you do.
23. Dont be quick to anger.
Learn when to speak at the right time. Those couple of seconds can be what changes a whole situation. Don’t let the little things create bigger problems. Coach yourself in knowing when to respond to negativity.
24. Learn to say “IM SORRY”
There are going to be situations in life that you may not always be the person that’s right. If we just learn to swallow our pride and apologize that can be the 2 words that make things right again. Know when to say it and actually mean it.
25. Learn a NEW skill
Most people have that one thing they’ve always wanted to learn. Maybe you wanted to learn how to cook, or even learn how to drive manually. Take time out to make the move. Dont wait!
26. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
There are going to be days that someone needs you to do a favor. You agree to it. Stick with it. When you make an agreement or even volunteer to do something for someone. DO IT. Dont go back on your word when you know you are capable.
27. LET GO!
Dont let what anyone thinks or says to stop you from achieving the things you want!
GO GET IT!
Let go of all your burdens you may be facing and allow yourself to be in full effect!
Thank you for taking time out to read 27 pin points to a better life style. I hope even just one key note you found useful enough for yourself.